Day Trip to Princeton, New Jersey

Day Trip to Princeton New Jersey

Oh, hey! It’s March, but I’m jumping back to October to continue recapping our New York City vacation.  One of the reasons I started blogging (five years ago!!) was to document my life. So even though I’m not able to keep up as quickly as I once did I don’t want to use that as an excuse to not document at all.

I have family in New Jersey, so to break up our week long trip we spent a few days with my family. One of those days we ventured into downtown Princeton, New Jersey.

Princeton University has an enchanting campus and the town has lots of little shops and restaurants making it a perfect day trip!

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Currently / / March

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February Recap

January was a slow month, but February flew by! I’m trying to even remember why. Phoenix and I were both sick. I honestly haven’t had a cold since before Phoenix was born (and I currently have a fever, so I’m catching up for lost time apparently). I get sinus headaches and sometimes my throat will be scratchy, but it’s allergy related. Phoenix  started his croup cough and then woke up with gunk in his eye. We assumed it was pink eye, but his pediatrician diagnosed Phoenix with an ear infection.

Within a day the antibiotics cleared the eye gunk. Bless modern medicine. I had constant ear infections as a child. Tubes were put in my ears, so I’m very thankful Phoenix went 18 months before his first round of antibiotics!

I mentioned last month Jordan and I signed up for Movie Pass. I’m thinking through each month to make sure we have a chance to see a movie. Last week we saw Black Panther. I’m considering bringing a blanket with me next time. Our theatre has reclining seats and they are very comfortable!


Planning | Logistics for the month. Family is visiting, which is awesome because we won’t have to get as many sitters for the month.

Seeing | How easy it is to make impulse purchases. I’ll recap next month, but Jordan and I are in a no-spend March. We needed to reign in our budget to reach a few goals. How I approached this was to limit groceries to essentials — no new recipes that involve special ingredients (spices, sauces) — and a general mindfulness of not over stocking up.

Obviously no clothes, makeup, books, records (Jordan’s impulse weakness), household items, etc. Phoenix needed spring clothes, so I used credit card rewards points and ended up spending $5. He also needs new shoes, but I factor that as necessary.

An example of something I need, but isn’t completely necessary are cereal/dinner bowls. We still use our wedding registry dishes, but we’re down to 5 bowls. We replaced our glasses from a thrift store, so I’ll keep my eye out for bowls.

Making | Progress on our taxes. I know I keep talking about this, but if you are self-employed (or are married to one) you’ll understand the struggle! I always discover an error on a 1099, so that gives me solace. Tax season is hard on everyone!

Pretending | That winter is over. At least in Nashville!

Wearing | Looking through my closet I realized my basic t-shirts were lacking, so I purchased three Everlane box t-shirts. They are only $16 — affordable and ethically made. The slight crop works with all of my high waisted jeans. Last spring/summer I was still less than a year postpartum, so I didn’t quite know where my body would land and thus I wore through the few shirts that fit.

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Moisturize Differently with Olay Whips

Moisturize Differently with Olay Whips

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I actually enjoy many parts of winter. It’s a reminder to slow down and allow for certain habits or rituals to figuratively and literally die. And just at the moment when I’m totally over the cold weather (like now!) spring time arrives! I often wonder what it’d be like to live in a part of the country that doesn’t experience extreme weather changes. Do they, do you, follow a similar path of spring cleaning and hibernation?

While Nashville winters aren’t as extreme as Chicago winters, from my childhood, I still experience effects from the lack of humidity and use of central heat. Both of which aren’t kind to my skin.

I’m in my thirties, so I’ve been spending time gaining more knowledge about skin care. I recently found out central heating reduces air humidity to the same moisture content as the Sahara Desert. That’s 20-25% humidity! No wonder wintertime causes so many skin problems.

Olay recently added Olay Whips to their collection. Why do many consider Olay Whips to be the unicorn of moisturizers? Let me tell you!

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Celebrate Valentine’s Day with your Children (+ Why it’s Important)

My blog post was originally posted on Red Tricycle last year. 

Celebrate Valentine's Day with your Children (+ Why it's Important)

Valentine’s Day is right around the corner! This day seems to stir up conflicting emotions for many people. I’ve always looked at the day as an excuse to bake treats and exchange meaningful words with friends and family.

I began thinking about why I don’t struggle with this day (and it’s not because I am married). It’s because my mom made it fun not at all about significant other’s. I wrote a blog post for Red Tricycle about Why You Should Celebrate Valentine’s Day with your Kids. My mother taught my brother’s and I life is too short to be cynical about a day where you have an extra reason to spread love around.

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Currently / / February

Reading with Toddlers

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I’m taking a break from my weekly Weekend Links, so instead I’m going to use these currently posts as a recap from the previous month. Mostly for my own recollection, but I enjoy reading about the everyday, slightly mundane, moments. Maybe you do too.

In January, Nashville had a snow storm! My parent’s came to visit. Jordan and I went on several dates. We signed up for MoviePass and so far we’ve seen I, Tonya. I finished two books: Rules of Civility and Between Shades of Gray. I’m a slow reader, but I couldn’t put Between Shades of Gray down. I read it in 24 hours! Does anyone else love books with short chapters?

Jordan and I finally signed up for a Southwest Credit Card. Might as well reap all of the travel benefit! I’ve already purchase flights for Phoenix and I to visit my brother in April and I have two more flights to book for the first half of the year. Jordan and I want to find more ways to travel this year and know using points will be one way.

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I’m Ready for a Reset | Olay 3-Step Reset

Olay 3-Step Reset

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December is always a little too full for me to spend a lot of time reflecting on the upcoming year. I’ve spent much of this month considering the areas of my life that need a reset. I’m slowing down and thoroughly thinking through my goals and aspirations for 2018.

I often resist the conceptual idea one has to make goals only in January. We can make small changes any time of the year, but with that said, one area in my life that immediately called for a reset is my skin!

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Day Dates + How to Find Babysitters

Day Dates + How to Find Babysitters

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Saturday morning Jordan and I went on a day date. I had scheduled a babysitter, but instead of canceling when my work scheduled changed Jordan and I went out! Day dates, as parents, are far superior to evening dates. For one thing Phoenix is awake the entire time so it’s a legit break, but also I’m not nearly as tired.

We had a gift card to a coffee shop, so we grabbed coffee and breakfast and pursued several antique stores nearby. We arrived home just in time to put Phoenix down for a nap. Saturday morning dates are where it’s at!

Speaking of dates, the parenting question I get asked the most is “how do you find your babysitters?”

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Let’s Play in the Snow!

Let's Play in the Snow!

Growing up in Chicago snow days didn’t quite have the same special allure they hold in the south. Now don’t get me wrong I went sledding and made snow angels and igloos out of the mountains of snow, but there was always another snowfall to come. And life kept moving because of the use of snowplows and salt trucks.

People still act surprised when it snows in Nashville, but in the three winters we’ve lived here one or two small snowfalls have taken place. Here are photos from Nashville’s largest snowfall in 13 years. Ironically, this happened right after we moved here.

Schools are quick to close, grocery store aisles empty with urgency and adults frolic in the snow just as much as kids. The main danger in driving around isn’t so much snow accumulation, but ice and windy streets that aren’t treated. I used to make fun of the pandemonium surrounding an inch of snow, but I understand now!

Two years ago I got stuck going up a hill — I don’t want to relive that moment! I actually really hate driving in inclement weather, so I’m glad our winters are short.

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New York City with a Toddler: Walking The Brooklyn Bridge

New York City with a Toddler: Walking The Brooklyn Bridge

Early on in our New York City planning stages, Jordan and I knew walking the Brooklyn Bridge was a must! While in New York City a few summers ago, we only spent one afternoon in Brooklyn and ran out of time. No sleeping-in on vacation with a toddler, so we started the day with a low-key agenda of coffee, walking a bridge and pizza.

The subway station was about a seven minute walk from our AirBnB in Bushwick. We took the subway to Williamsburg, where we grabbed coffee and breakfast at Devoción’s café. This was after walking around in a few circles trying to find a coffee shop that was stroller friendly. The first place we went to (per a recommendation) was basement level.

Devoción's café in Brooklyn

New York City with a Toddler: Walking The Brooklyn Bridge

I love frequenting coffee shops while on vacation. I don’t need fancy dinners, but I want need my fancy iced lattes and artisan avocado toast or chocolate croissant. Phoenix was very much ready for a diaper change and snack break by this point. I made sure to have plenty of pouches and little bites, but I also gave him our food.

DEVOCIÓN’s menu is small (no syrups, etc) but their espresso is creamy and delicious. For a Brooklyn establishment  it was roomy, clean and fairly baby friendly. Several babies passed through (including TWINS!). It was easy to keep our UppaBaby stroller next to us and even though patrons were working, no-one appeared bothered.

New York City with a Toddler: Walking The Brooklyn Bridge

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After regrouping we walked a few more blocks to the ferry. Phoenix LOVED riding the ferry to the other side of the bridge. The ride itself was inexpensive and lasted maybe 15 minutes. I sat inside with the stroller, but Jordan took Phoenix out on to the deck. The ferry dropped us off in DUMBO — another part of Brooklyn we wanted to spend time in.

We walked down by the water for a bit. Jordan had to take a work call, so Phoenix and I found a nearby park to mostly stretch Phoenix’s legs. There are parks everywhere in the city. It’s really quite awesome.

Honestly, it took quite awhile to figure out how to enter the walking bridge portion of the Brooklyn Bridge. It felt like we were walking around in circles, but we eventually found it. The Brooklyn Bridge Pedestrian Walkway begins at the intersection of Tillary Street and Boerum Place. Don’t do what we did and type in Brooklyn Bridge in your map app — it won’t take you to a specific entry point.

Toddler Travel in New York City

Toddler Travel to New York City

Walking The Brooklyn Bridge with a toddler

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Phoenix fell asleep, while we were walking the bridge, for about twenty minutes. He wasn’t happy when he woke up (that was his only nap of the day), so we didn’t make it all the way across. I did love walking the bridge, but in the future I’d consider going even earlier in the morning to beat some of the crowds.

We decided to attempt to eat lunch at Juliana’s Pizza (which is right around the corner). A line was formed outside the door, but, thankfully, we were seated within 30 minutes. To keep a meltdown at bay, Jordan walked around with Phoenix. I observed a family order take-out and eat their pizza on some nearby benches. Now, that is smart parenting!

By this point Phoenix was so over-tired. Basically as soon as our Margherita pizza and housemmeatballs arrived we paid and placed everything in to-go boxes. We knew we still had to walk back to the subway and travel back to our AirBnB. Phoenix is a trooper and sleeps pretty consistently at night…when he’s home. He doesn’t sleep well on the go, so while I imagined he’d nap more while walking the streets of New York he didn’t.

Phoenix is pretty flexible during the day, but we couldn’t quite adjust his bedtime. Everyday we planned on getting back to start the bedtime routine around 4 pm. Our AirBnB had a balcony, so after Phoenix was asleep we reheated our (incredible) pizza and finished the previous days’ bottle of wine.

New York City with a Toddler: Walking The Brooklyn Bridge

New York City with a Toddler: Walking The Brooklyn Bridge

New York City with a Toddler: Walking The Brooklyn Bridge

New York City with a Toddler: Walking The Brooklyn Bridge

^ Waiting for pizza!

New York City with a Toddler: Walking The Brooklyn Bridge

^ On our leg back to the subway Jordan found THE street in Brooklyn. We had to stop and take photos. By this point Phoenix didn’t want to be in his stroller, so out came the Sakura Bloom Sling. 😉

New York City with a Toddler: Walking The Brooklyn Bridge

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Weekend Links / / Staying Warm

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Hi Friends! Are you staying warm? It’s still really cold in Nashville. Phoenix’s school had a two-hour delay on Thursday due to the cold. Also, can we address the frustration that is finagling last-minute childcare arrangements?! I pray this winter is gentle on us.

We met Jordan after Phoenix’s nap on Friday afternoon to finally take our 2017 family photos! It’s still the beginning of January, so I think we’re okay. 😉 November and December are busy months for us, so I’m wondering if we should, in the future, take the photos in September. When do you usually have your family photos taken?

P.S. If you’d like our New Years card, DM me your address on Instagram.

Yesterday, Jordan and I went to a wedding. The ceremony was outside (it was maybe 30°!). Don’t worry, we were told to dress in layers. I basically brought a blanket. 🙂 The wedding itself was in the late afternoon, so Jordan and I had time to grab Jeni’s ice cream before relieving our sitter.

Onto the links!

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